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« Reply #30 on: January 05, 2015, 08:45:00 AM »

"When im done im done" is a healthy statement no? I told my ex this in the beginning of our relationship. As in, if I get dumped I refuse to be recycled. Not sure I'd be able to live up to it if I got the chance though...

I'm trying to remember what made me say say that... .

Yeah, healthy within a Nons mind because, when im done im done is us saying "I cant take you hurting me anymore, I cant take the lieing the cheating" Where as, when a BPD says when im done im done, you seem to find that those are merely words, yes i havent heard from my ex in 4 months, but, based on her she went back to her husband after 3 diferent relationships, so when im done, im done, doesnt really fit the words they project onto us. 
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