Send prayers -- Snowed in with BPD husband...

[howcanI?]

'Nuf said... .

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[Cat Familiar]

Ugh! Can you pull out the board games? Have a mug of hot chocolate and play Monopoly or Clue?

[howcanI?]

Ah Cat, bless your heart!  One thing worse than being snowed in is being snowed in with BOARD GAMES! . Thanks for the suggestion though. I'm slowly drifting from one part of the house to another with the hope that he'll weary of chasing me around with complaints, needs, and accusations.  And, of course, I get online with you-all!

[maxsterling]

Wow.  My best to you.  I can imagine what you face  .  My goal and hope in these situations is to find something to distract her from her negative, obsessive thoughts.  If i can get her to put her phone away and watch tv, its mission accomplished.  Im sure it would be best if you could get him to do something on his own so you have freedom to do your own thing.  Hope you get some peace 

[Cat Familiar]

I hope your electricity stays on. We seldom get snow here, but when we do, it typically knocks down the oak trees that keep their leaves year round and our power goes off. Since it's so warm on the West Coast right now, I suspect that you're in another part of the country. Good luck and I hope you can find something that keeps him occupied.