they are so much a like.

[ChadP]

That I being lying if I hadn't thought some of us have dated the same woman. It's kinda creepy how they all basically do the same thing.

[Infern0]

Yeah its kind of disturbing to be honest.  I mean I understand that they would have similar thought process etc but it really gives me chills how often I hear the same lines being regurgitated by them on here. It's like they come off a production line or something. 

On the positive side,  it should make them easier to spot once you have been in with one

[enlighten me]

I remember one post where a man had his baby daughter fall asleep on him and his BPD partner berated him as she thought the baby should have been put to sleep in a cot. I was gobsmacked as I had the same thing happen to me and was berated almost word for word as the other guy. It really is spooky how we go through the same thing no matter where we are in the world.

[Heartbroken Eagle]

It is very scary but in a perverse way reassuring as well as so many people have gone through similar experiences with their ex BPD partner.

I really thought I was alone and no-one else understood what I went through with her. I also initially blamed myself for my ex to change so drastically, partly because she told me it was. Now I realised that I had no chance with her and it was only a matter of time before it all 'came out'