If some woman told me she was a cold hearted $&
@! I would take her at her word. Otherwise she will show you that she is over time. And the last thing I would do is tell her I love her if you have been playing this kind of leaving coming back game. It will tear you apart if she really is BPD. You don't need to prove to her that she isn't the
)&& she says she is. She will prove to you she is. And even if she isn't BPD, a kind person doesn't tell you they're a cold hearted
$&$. They would have no reason to.
