Friends/social media thought.

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Okay, so I know its commonplace to say that you shouldn't continue to follow them on social media, but I've personally found that its helped me watch their lives just kind of be, lesser, and if you're new and reading this let me tell you, the dysfunction does not go away, if anything, it gets worse. Needless to say, Im not impressed with what I've seen, But thats just me.

Anyways this inspired a thought... .If they can do what they did to us. Their self proclaimed, "Soul Mates" "Baby's" "Loves" ect. Then how little regard do they feel for the common "friend" or "hookup?" They must not even look at them as human, almost like pieces of meat. Mine has little to no care for the females in her life, but has so many female friends. I know this cause she spoke this way all the time in private conversation to me behind their backs when we were together and during break up phase. " I don't care about the other girls!" "They're so pretty, and I'm not" "I wish I had her waist" She fools around with girls too now btw. So insecure. 

The guys seem to be even less, nothing more than tools/meat for her.

I imagine it can be illustrated with a child's point of view. We, "Soulmates" Loves ect. Are their daddy's and mommy's. While the common friend or hookup is just another kid at the playground. They put on their grown up clothes and mirrored us, then when it got too hard, bills needed to get paid, and sacrifices needed to be made, they pouted and ran to the playground with the other kids. Daddy/mommy cant have sex with you right now he's/she's out of town, you may need to sacrifice some sex time like an adult until he/she get back. But this should be no prob seeing as thats your "soul mate" right? Wrong, they cannot comprehend this adult task, they will sacrifice the quality of a parent for the quantity of friends. Perhaps its because they can control what to their minds are other children, when they did not have that with us, their parents.

They cared for us and it was difficult and complex emotionally for them, the other children though, they're nothing, they feel nothing for them. They fulfill my shallow needs, and don't make me do chores like mommy/daddy did. Think about it this way... .How much regard do you have for the girl/boy you kissed at preschool? I imagine thats how they feel about their "partners".

I suppose I've answered my own question haven't I LOL. Thoughts please? 

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Okay, so I know its commonplace to say that you shouldn't continue to follow them on social media, but I've personally found that its helped me watch their lives just kind of be, lesser, and if you're new and reading this let me tell you, the dysfunction does not go away, if anything, it gets worse. Needless to say, Im not impressed with what I've seen, But thats just me.

Anyways this inspired a thought... .If they can do what they did to us. Their self proclaimed, "Soul Mates" "Baby's" "Loves" ect. Then how little regard do they feel for the common "friend" or "hookup?" They must not even look at them as human, almost like pieces of meat. Mine has little to no care for the females in her life, but has so many female friends. I know this cause she spoke this way all the time in private conversation to me behind their backs when we were together and during break up phase. " I don't care about the other girls!" "They're so pretty, and I'm not" "I wish I had her waist" She fools around with girls too now btw. So insecure. 

The guys seem to be even less, nothing more than tools/meat for her.

I imagine it can be illustrated with a child's point of view. We, "Soulmates" Loves ect. Are their daddy's and mommy's. While the common friend or hookup is just another kid at the playground. They put on their grown up clothes and mirrored us, then when it got too hard, bills needed to get paid, and sacrifices needed to be made, they pouted and ran to the playground with the other kids. Daddy/mommy cant have sex with you right now he's/she's out of town, you may need to sacrifice some sex time like an adult until he/she get back. But this should be no prob seeing as thats your "soul mate" right? Wrong, they cannot comprehend this adult task, they will sacrifice the quality of a parent for the quantity of friends. Perhaps its because they can control what to their minds are other children, when they did not have that with us, their parents.

They cared for us and it was difficult and complex emotionally for them, the other children though, they're nothing, they feel nothing for them. They fulfill my shallow needs, and don't make me do chores like mommy/daddy did. Think about it this way... .How much regard do you have for the girl/boy you kissed at preschool? I imagine thats how they feel about their "partners".

I suppose I've answered my own question haven't I LOL. Thoughts please?