Nons-Do you find winter to be more challenging for you and your pwBPD?

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Personally, I can count on a meltdown or major episode during the winter season. In my case, boredom and facebook overcome my wife when the weather shuts us in. If I could plot a pareto diagram of notable issues, the winter months are the worst for frequency and severity.

What are your thoughts? Do you see a conflict increase beyond normal BPD behavior from Nov thru May?

[bobcat2014]

Personally, I can count on a meltdown or major episode during the winter season. In my case, boredom and facebook overcome my wife when the weather shuts us in. If I could plot a pareto diagram of notable issues, the winter months are the worst for frequency and severity.

What are your thoughts? Do you see a conflict increase beyond normal BPD behavior from Nov thru May?

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[Jessica84]

Absolutely! Except I'm way down south so it's Nov-Feb. November is when he starts unraveling. His behavior becomes more erratic, reckless and impulsive. December is his month of shame, remorse and regrets. January is numb - he's somewhat emotionless. Peaks in February with anger, aggression and depression. Ends by March.

I'm counting down the days now... . 

[Hawk Ridge]

Mine left me both times during the cold snowy spring.  Brings back bad memories. Wonder how she is doing this winter