So your boundary is "no rants in loud voices with name-calling"?
"I won't expose myself to loud voices and name calling."
Interesting today. During her rage of this week, she accused me of being aspergers. ? She made that accusation again during MC on Friday. She's got her list of "reasons" - that I can be somewhat shy at times, and she claims I sometimes don't look people in the eyes during conversation. Yikes! She even said I need to go somewhere to be "tested" for aspergers! When you read the characteristics of Aspergers and know me, I don't fit the description at all. But today, we were out with a friend of hers, and she made a comment about autism/aspergers, and said, "Max, you have to understand that my whole family likes to insult people by claiming they have aspergers. But I don't even really know what that is." I guess that is as close to an apology as I can get today!
