So many guys... Why me?



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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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So many guys... Why me?

« on: February 06, 2015, 06:31:42 AM »

Ive had this question looming for several nights now... .Maybe it'll help to talk about it here.

My ex is a very stunning girl and you could sleep with her basically by saying hi to her.

So after SO. MANY. GUYS. - why am I the one she still has attachment issues with, long after the breakup?

It was such an unhealthy relationship. And yet for how much she supposedly "hates" me, suddenly all my favorite bands are now HER favorite bands.

She has easily 40+ guys & girls to mirror and obsess over. I don't understand why out of all those people, it's me.


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