Hello bobutterfly and
You telegraph a lot of love for your step children
What, specifically, are you struggling with right now? There are many step-parents on the board who deal with biological parents who are BPD or who exhibit BPD or NPD traits. It can also be tough dealing with spouses who may still be enmeshed with their Ex's poor behaviors. How long have you been married, and how old are the kids? I hope to hear more, and how best we can support you.
Turkish
