I Don't Think He'll Ever Go Down…I Still Do Hope

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I can never share the details of what my ex does but he has so many people in high positions in his corner due to the nature of what his business practices.  The support system that surrounds him is entirely based on fraud and I honestly think he may pull this off forever…maybe even land his own tv show  

People tend to fear him before they even know him.  When they get to know him they either stay close in this bizarre-servant type of dutiful position or they quietly keep their distance.

He is bringing in nearly ten thousand dollars monthly (and that amount will undoubtedly increase), as an unemployed person, and is dumping it into his personal bank account.  He doesn't file income taxes.  Everyone around him thinks he is this HUGE gift to society and I wake up every day wondering if the Twilight Zone will ever lift it's hazy screen.

I regularly get tempted to report his IRS fraud... .But I won't.  I get tempted to warn his replacements, but that fades.  He's WAyyyy too popular on FB and elsewhere for anyone to believe me.  I get tempted to report my knowledge of his criminal behavior to authorities, but I won't.  I know that living my own life and doing it well is the best revenge. 

Even knowing that it won't be ME who brings him down…I actually live with the pangs of fear that if he ever winds up behind bars…he'll send someone to hurt me.  Once he turned on me anything and everything that goes wrong in his life gets blamed on me. 

One day…I want him to be a very pale memory.  I want my life and joys to take center stage and completely snuff out the tragedy his presence has imposed on this period of my life. 

[Hope0807]

I can never share the details of what my ex does but he has so many people in high positions in his corner due to the nature of what his business practices.  The support system that surrounds him is entirely based on fraud and I honestly think he may pull this off forever…maybe even land his own tv show  

People tend to fear him before they even know him.  When they get to know him they either stay close in this bizarre-servant type of dutiful position or they quietly keep their distance.

He is bringing in nearly ten thousand dollars monthly (and that amount will undoubtedly increase), as an unemployed person, and is dumping it into his personal bank account.  He doesn't file income taxes.  Everyone around him thinks he is this HUGE gift to society and I wake up every day wondering if the Twilight Zone will ever lift it's hazy screen.

I regularly get tempted to report his IRS fraud... .But I won't.  I get tempted to warn his replacements, but that fades.  He's WAyyyy too popular on FB and elsewhere for anyone to believe me.  I get tempted to report my knowledge of his criminal behavior to authorities, but I won't.  I know that living my own life and doing it well is the best revenge. 

Even knowing that it won't be ME who brings him down…I actually live with the pangs of fear that if he ever winds up behind bars…he'll send someone to hurt me.  Once he turned on me anything and everything that goes wrong in his life gets blamed on me. 

One day…I want him to be a very pale memory.  I want my life and joys to take center stage and completely snuff out the tragedy his presence has imposed on this period of my life.