why do you worry about what dumped person does

[Depression = 72% of members]

I get scared at some of these posts. I don't want to be 40 and still worried about what anyone in my family thinks of me. Let them think or say what they like. I'm sure they will.  I don't want to give them my time. Once you go no contact isn't it best just to ignore them unless they steal from you or assault you? I don't get the ongoing complaints unless deep inside they hurt you which means you still love them. I doubt I'll have trouble putting my family far far away unless they come to me. Waste of your energy to me.

[Proboscidea]

I get scared at some of these posts. I don't want to be 40 and still worried about what anyone in my family thinks of me. Let them think or say what they like. I'm sure they will.  I don't want to give them my time. Once you go no contact isn't it best just to ignore them unless they steal from you or assault you? I don't get the ongoing complaints unless deep inside they hurt you which means you still love them. I doubt I'll have trouble putting my family far far away unless they come to me. Waste of your energy to me.

[Skip]

which means you still love them. I doubt I'll have trouble putting my family far far away unless they come to me. Waste of your energy to me.

Do you not love your family?  Not any of them?

Are you mad today?

What's up?

[Proboscidea]

Do I love my family? I loved my older brother once. I wanted my mom to love me but she always tells me I'm so bad she wished I had never been born.She won't tell me who my father is or where I was born. I think about him. She says he's in jail. And that I will be too. I always tried to please everyone. When it escalated on me I decided to leave forever. I am only 19 but have always been on my own. I love my friends and not family I am hoping to forget about them I hope.

[lbjnltx]

Hello Proboscidea,  

I am so sad to read that you are not feeling love from  your family. You said you have an older brother.  How does he deal with your mom?  What is your relationship with him like?  

I'm glad you have friends that you love and love you too.  It's what we all want and need, to be loved and accepted for just who we are.  


lbj