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I don't even know anymore, do things ever get better?
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So I caught my SO lying to me about a woman at his work that he said only text him to ask him if it was snowing outside yet he felt the need to delete the message, first if that's all it was why hide it. Second it turned into world war 3 because he got caught lying and I ended up with a fat lip. I'm kind of tired of being a human punching bag and I'm extremely tired of the lies and bull___. I told him I would try to trust him and not over think things but how can you do that when everything is a lie... . If it was the other way around it wouldn't be ok for me, how is it ok for them?
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Hi Johnsok,
I'm sorry to hear that you and your SO are not doing well together. I'm concerned about your safety, domestic violence is not to be taken lightly.
Have you read this information before that we have on the site?:
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