Just thought of this today... so creepy.

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

A story my exBPDbf told me just popped into my head today and really skeeved me out.

We had been talking about online dating and he told me he had been on a date with a girl, then took her home and hung out on her porch together. She was trying to put the moves on him when a woman came out and started asking him what he was doing with her 15 YEAR OLD daughter. He profusely apologized and told the mom that her daughter had a profile up on POF. The mom apologized to HIM then apparently chewed out the girl.

Ok, really? What thirty-odd year old with a daughter gets duped into thinking a 15 year old is mid-twenties? Now I'm starting to wonder if he did more with this girl. Or if there were others. This is very creepy to me.

[StarOfTheSea]

A story my exBPDbf told me just popped into my head today and really skeeved me out.

We had been talking about online dating and he told me he had been on a date with a girl, then took her home and hung out on her porch together. She was trying to put the moves on him when a woman came out and started asking him what he was doing with her 15 YEAR OLD daughter. He profusely apologized and told the mom that her daughter had a profile up on POF. The mom apologized to HIM then apparently chewed out the girl.

Ok, really? What thirty-odd year old with a daughter gets duped into thinking a 15 year old is mid-twenties? Now I'm starting to wonder if he did more with this girl. Or if there were others. This is very creepy to me.

[DreamGirl]

How old was your boyfriend?

[Maternus]

The daughter of my ex is 13 and everybody thinks she is  about 19. She is a very tall girl, taller than me. I'm 6 foot tall, my ex is also taller than me and her ex-husband (the father of her daughter) is about 6.8 foot tall. I'm not small, but I felt vertically challenged in the family of my ex.  

[StarOfTheSea]

How old was your boyfriend?

He would have been early thirties at the time. I guess part of the ick factor for me is that he would talk about how he had wanted to date much younger women, I think because he felt he could easily control them. Every day seems to lead to more insights about him and has me thanking my guardian angel for getting me out of there.