I'm at a loss

[Sugie]

I have been seeing this man for 7 months now.  His behavior changes dramatically sometimes from day to day other times within minutes.  He degrades me regularly doesn't remember what he has said gives mectge silently treatment reverts to child like bejaior at night... . Nothing I do is good enough... .but when he is good he is the vest man I've ever known. I love him with all my Heart and soul... .I'm losing myself and constantly drained... .

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[waverider]

Glad you managed to find us. This is a common story you are relating. A feeling of hopelessness and futility.

We know what you are talking about and will not offer any flippant answers.

Has he any diagnosed history of personality disorders, or is this just what you surmise based on your own research?

The good is the flip site of the disorder, this is what keeps us hooked.

Have you read many of the topics and articles on this site yet to get a sense of what is and is not possible?

Which aspect concerns you the most?

Waverider