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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« on: July 21, 2015, 01:06:22 PM »

My uBPDstbxw is still trying to make contact. Last we met in a public setting, she was threatening suicide if I proceeded with the divorce, and almost created a big scene. Someone called in the paramedics. The exaggerated hysterics that I faced countless times. Truely it pisses me off because there are people who genuinely are concerned but are not aware of the manipulation in play by acting the victim.  There's no turning back but has anyone had similar experiences? How did you deal with it or overcome the stress. I have been thinking of finding some way to stop it from happening but don't have a clue how.
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« Reply #1 on: July 21, 2015, 01:49:28 PM »

Is there a way to block her or to go NC or LC?
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