Police, again

[maxsterling]

Of course, somehow she found out that I had called her T... .and she blew up my phone over that. Did T tell her that?  Some kind of covert spying?  If T told her, is that not unethical?

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[Cat Familiar]

I don't think that's necessarily unethical on the part of the therapist since it's your wife's therapist, not yours. But it tells you that her therapist is not someone you can rely upon. Unless, of course, she found out some other way. But you're assembling lots of people in your corner who can advise you so you've got it covered. 

[SweetCharlotte]

If it were your T, that would go against ethics. Your T should only tell on you if he/she feels that someone else would be put at risk if it is kept confidential.

Her T, however, I'm pretty sure that her T is supposed to tell her anything he/she knows that he/she feels it is in her best interest to know.

[formflier]

If it were your T, that would go against ethics. Your T should only tell on you if he/she feels that someone else would be put at risk if it is kept confidential.

Her T, however, I'm pretty sure that her T is supposed to tell her anything he/she knows that he/she feels it is in her best interest to know.

That's my take as well... .that her T is in "her" corner. 

I still think it was correct that you reach out to her professionals... .she will need them... .and they need to have the correct information.

FF

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