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Beach_Babe

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Re: Advice needed

« Reply #30 on: July 20, 2015, 12:21:26 AM »

Is it possible to find healing through forgiveness? Perhaps this does not even need to involve pwBPD directly?


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Re: Advice needed

« Reply #31 on: July 20, 2015, 12:36:44 AM »

Quote from: Beach_Babe on July 20, 2015, 12:21:26 AM

Is it possible to find healing through forgiveness? Perhaps this does not even need to involve pwBPD directly?

There are actually a lot of rituals people use to let go of the past in this way. You might really be onto something here. Writing a letter and burning it, things like that.


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Re: Advice needed

« Reply #32 on: July 20, 2015, 01:48:01 AM »

I stay away by reminding myself I am needy, desperate and a pathetic loser. That I would be mocked if I made contact. I cant believe that I could ever be missed, or that someone would actually want to see me. I dont feel worthy. Maybe i am just not.


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