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Herodias
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« on: September 01, 2015, 05:40:19 PM » |
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Had a fight with my stbx via e-mail... .I was set off today by his text acting all nice that he put my alimony in the joint account this morning... .then I went to an old grocery store he worked at and ran into one of his sluts... .made me almost cry in the store. I won't shop there any more! Then I decided that we need to not have a joint account. He was supposed to have a direct deposit put in (as he said " in case something happens to him" jail, hospital, etc.) then we each take out our share- he didn't do it. Everyone told me that he can pay my money like you pay other bills, by direct deposit to me. Set up on auto pay... .So I sent him this;
Me: Since you are not having the VA money directly deposited into the joint account, wouldn’t it be easier to set up automatic payments to me from your account to mine? This would eliminate the need for a joint account and for you to have to deal with it each month. Also, as you have said, “in case something happens” in the future. You can pay a person, just like you pay bills through the bank. Something to consider….you may want to ask the bank about it.
Him: Ok, Maybe we can go to the bank and work that out next Tuesday.
Him: (1 min. later); Nothing is going to happen to me you will get your money early every month like I have done for the last 9 months we have been separated
Me:’m just thinking of the past year with hospital stays and such…... you never know what could happen. I don’t wish bad things on you, but just thought it would be easier... .Your decision of course.
Him:So far I have had a great year with zero instances, the stress in my life is gone other than my debt, but thanks for thinking of me
Now I am livid, like It's all my fault he was such mess... .and the cause of his "stress"
Me:You're an ass - you'll never change
Him:You had a bad day? That was random. I hope tomorrow is better for you
Me:You don't need to text me that the money is in the account every month- I'll see it.
Him:Why are you so angry? I let you know it's there and than told you I hope you had a good day. You responded "Thank you
Me:Do I have to spell it out? You don't tell your soon to be ex wife your having a great year without her around! After she ran into one of the whores at your store today! I can't shop at Publix anymore- it disgusts me! You disgust me and you'll never change! Glad you're year has been so fantastic! I guess going to jail, moving into a dump, selling the only house you'll ever own, getting a divorce, getting suspended, not getting promoted, a felony hanging over your head, a dear friends death, debt going into collections, needing to pawn things for money, having a butt ass ugly, fat girlfriend and pissing all over yourself when drunk every night, makes a great year for you! Since you think it's so great, I wish you more of the same... .
Him:Your money will be there by the 10th of each month as required. Again I hope your day is better tomorrow
Such a jerk... .I think the turn of the page to the calendar showing our anniversary coming up set me off too... .Just a bad day, but I hate him acting like he is doing so well without me!
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