and she's taken it to another level

[poedameron]

I've been NC with my exBPDgf for a month... .several posts here about her insanity... .and I just got served papers... .Apparently she went to something called Safe House and filed a Personal Protection Order against me.  Like I want to see her in the first place... .and she does this to hurt me?  To get attention?  I don't know what she claimed I did, but I'll know in a couple days.

I really am sorry I ever met her, she is a tornado from hell just destroying lives left and right... .the good times are so not worth it.

[saintgrey]

I was lucky that in my situation LE was not involved but it seems to be very common, if you try to reach they will start saying your harassing her/him.

Best thing you can do if no kids involved or anything legal is to forget and move on, don't try to check how she's doing and if she ever try to contact you again make it clear and polite that you don't wish to have any involvement with her if thats your choice.