try to break it off

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I've been looking for the right time and trying to break it off with my current narcissistic fiancé. here's the problem; it seems that every time i'm about to break it off she can almost sense it and becomes very nice for a about a week. Makes it really hard for me to do it. I know i'm too nice, she taking advantage, stop putting her feelings first ... .

it's hard, but i'm getting closer

[jasonb]

I've been looking for the right time and trying to break it off with my current narcissistic fiancé. here's the problem; it seems that every time i'm about to break it off she can almost sense it and becomes very nice for a about a week. Makes it really hard for me to do it. I know i'm too nice, she taking advantage, stop putting her feelings first ... .

it's hard, but i'm getting closer

[OnceConfused]

That push - being a b*tch, then pull - being an angel , is exactly the strategy BPD uses to keep us around for longer time.

I think it is also a fault of the non, a fault in which the non cannot make any decisions. WHen things go bad, we want to leave, but then things get nicer, we then hope that the whole thing will be brighter, and then yet the bad thing comes again.

A friend of mine gave me this word of the wise: " take whatever you get before the marriage, then multiply it by 10, that is what you will get when you are married. Can you handle that ?". I could not.