Hi loverofBPDbf1231,
Feeling hurt (because you are), and resentful (because of probable lack of empathy from him) are reasonable feelings. You speak of communication skills. Have you read up on communication techniques developed specifically for someone with BPD? We have them here in the lessons to the right of this board (lesson 3).
How specifically do you feel taken advantage of, do you live together? Is he diagnosed and in treatment? I hope to hear more and how best we can support you.
Turkish