Ex got engaged one month after our break up to the ow. I've since moved on to a healthy relationship. I did change my# and blocked his email, my FB however is opened because i really don't want to get into the unlock/block game. I don't look at his social media don't care what he's doing, and really don't care if he looks at mine. I've been recycled many times, with the break up/make up thing. Even broke up for 6 months get back together just to be discarded again weeks later. Told me to move on with my life because he can never commit to me. then gets engaged one month later. Question is, now that I've moved on, do you all think I need to be worried about being charmed. In this case I really don't think its likely.
What are your thoughts?
I can only speak on my experience. . Someone with more could probably give a better answer. . But my BPDex only cared when it messed with her image... had I moved on first she would have crumbled... alot of people with BPD are notorious for wanting to have their cake and eat it as well meaning she may not "want to date" me anymore but she would do anything to keep me and the other guy on the hook. . My opinion is as long as he has her he's "okay" but if his r/s collapses then he looks to the left and sees that you're in a r/s. In my opinion that's when he will care.
