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« Reply #30 on: November 22, 2015, 11:53:30 PM »

Thanks for the love everyone.

I'm going to need it as I help sift through her apartment.

Looks like she didn't stop stealing when she was a teenager and even stole medication from our grandfather in his final years. 

This is tough. We went through my buddy's mom's house after she passed and found stuff we would have been better off not finding. I imagine it would be hard to do it alone. Do you have anyome there to support you besides your parents?

Will soon.

I almost had a sex toy fall on my head while I was cleaning.  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Yeouch! My story with my buddy's mother and cleaning out her house was something like that... .and some legal documents detailing related Borderline drama which was something out of a soap opera.
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« Reply #31 on: November 23, 2015, 12:38:00 PM »

I'm very sorry for your loss. 
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« Reply #32 on: November 28, 2015, 11:37:23 PM »

Thanks for the love everyone.

I'm going to need it as I help sift through her apartment.

Looks like she didn't stop stealing when she was a teenager and even stole medication from our grandfather in his final years. 

This is tough. We went through my buddy's mom's house after she passed and found stuff we would have been better off not finding. I imagine it would be hard to do it alone. Do you have anyome there to support you besides your parents?

Will soon.

I almost had a sex toy fall on my head while I was cleaning.  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Yeouch! My story with my buddy's mother and cleaning out her house was something like that... .and some legal documents detailing related Borderline drama which was something out of a soap opera.

Sounds familiar, I found a letter by my sister that mentions she had a restraining order on her.
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« Reply #33 on: November 29, 2015, 12:06:54 AM »

It was the same thing. And related legal things. Something like a love triangle.

How is it going otherwise?
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« Reply #34 on: November 29, 2015, 02:51:29 PM »

It was the same thing. And related legal things. Something like a love triangle.

How is it going otherwise?

My parents let our Minister announce to the congregation that she was in God's hands.

I think that helped my mom a lot.
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« Reply #35 on: December 01, 2015, 11:30:02 PM »

Ropend,

Wow!  So very sorry for the loss that brings up all kinds of yucky things.  No worries about apologizing here.  I think we all get the idea that because of family members with BPD sometimes we have some unusual thoughts about family members that the general public will never understand.

Hang tough!

For over a decade my sister was a mere shadow of who she had once been and last night she did something terminal.

I'm not sure it was suicide.

My sister had intentionally overdosed before and not died.

I suspect my sister thought she'd survive yet again and manage to hurt the latest loser she had shacked up with in the process.


Sorry if I've hurt anyones feeling but I needed to write this.

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