I harmed her when she sent me 'there'. I wasn't strong enough. She harmed my kid

[heart4her]

I cannot recall when I uttered these words to her last, "I'M DONE". I am at wits end. I harmed her when she sent me 'there'. I wasn't strong enough. She harmed my kids. I am taught no one should harm my kids, she did. I am about to loose my boy or her over this. I believe I have the strength to endure. I feel she is self-destructing at this minute in her way. I'm new to this... .with her, my mother is BPD (without ever harming herself physically). I LOVE HER.

[Turkish]

Hello heart4hear,

What going on now, and is everybody safe? What do you mean when you say that you harmed her? I understand about not harming kids, as a father my self. How old are your kids, and what happened?

Turkish

[livednlearned]

Hi heart4her,

Many here understand what it feels like to snap, when we feel pushed too far. And at the same time, to love them deeply.

You're not alone.

Hope you'll let us know how you're doing when you feel ready.

LnL