What were some negative thgs people said about them that you learned to be true

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Sorry about all these threads but it's so cool to see im not crazy haha. Anyways she told me her ex called her "emotionally exhausting" it was the worse thing anybody has ever said. Well fast forward about 6 months into our relationship and I'm nearly pulling my hair out because she was constantly venting constantly complaining and wouldn't take any of my advice. Couple this with not having my needs met and yes she was very emotionally exhausting.

[jujux15]

Sorry about all these threads but it's so cool to see im not crazy haha. Anyways she told me her ex called her "emotionally exhausting" it was the worse thing anybody has ever said. Well fast forward about 6 months into our relationship and I'm nearly pulling my hair out because she was constantly venting constantly complaining and wouldn't take any of my advice. Couple this with not having my needs met and yes she was very emotionally exhausting.

[Confused?]

Never got any foreshadowing such as that but I hope the new guy gets some where she tells him "one of my exes called me a monster". Maybe he will be on this board within the year making the same thread.

[jujux15]

Never got any foreshadowing such as that but I hope the new guy gets some where she tells him "one of my exes called me a monster". Maybe he will be on this board within the year making the same thread.

The fact that that was true made me wonder just how much of what she said about him was the truth or not. He was painted out to be this horrible human so I assumed it was all the truth.

[Rayban]

Remember meeting her friends for the first time at a dinner party, and at the end of the night as we were leaving, her best friends brother said, '' Good luck with her''. Like an idiot I thought him to be a jealous ex, so I just brushed off. Later in the car she said, oh don't worry about him he's had a crush on me for the longest time.

Boy wished I would have listened to that dude. Later found out he was the most normal of the bunch.

[jujux15]

Remember meeting her friends for the first time at a dinner party, and at the end of the night as we were leaving, her best friends brother said, '' Good luck with her''. Like an idiot I thought him to be a jealous ex, so I just brushed off. Later in the car she said, oh don't worry about him he's had a crush on me for the longest time.

Boy wished I would have listened to that dude. Later found out he was the most normal of the bunch.

Oh wow yeah sometimes I think people just start to turn a blind eye. They know how things will end

[hopealways]

Friends said she was selfish.

Her ex said nothing was ever good enough for her.

[UserName69]

When she had a fight with her exBF and he called her a "pyscho %^&&$". It turns out that he was right.

An another time when we broke up she was ranting on FB and one guy "Stop posting this crap about your life, you're always the one who's craving for attention. Could this be one of your another attempts?".

Later she said that the guy was just being an a-hole who wanted to sleep with her.

[Confused?]

Never got any foreshadowing such as that but I hope the new guy gets some where she tells him "one of my exes called me a monster". Maybe he will be on this board within the year making the same thread.

The fact that that was true made me wonder just how much of what she said about him was the truth or not. He was painted out to be this horrible human so I assumed it was all the truth.

My ex told me all her exes were horrible. She said they were cheaters and abusers. There was one moment far into our relationship she told me she dated two guys at the same time. And when we broke up she even had one ex as a friend on Facebook. I know the two guy thing is true (which she later denied ever saying). I look at my ex as the boy who cried wolf. No one will ever believe her. If she actually gets herself into a bad situation it will be too late.

[patientandclear]

That promising women the world, leaving out of the blue, and acting indignant if they objected, was "just what he does."