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Author Topic: Supervised visitation for 2 year old son  (Read 490 times)
Indyan
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: separated for 15 months, court 4 months ago
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« on: January 24, 2016, 04:59:20 PM »

Hi  

I haven't been here for a while and wish you are all as well as can be.

(My story is summarized on my profile page).

After a year of hell that some may remember, we saw the judge in Sept and are seeing her again in March.

Judge ordered supervised visitation in a center with psychologists, 1h every two weeks.

This has allowed the kids (I also have a D11 who's been extremely affected by her stepdad's madness) and myself to live in peace again.

I live in fear of course of what might get decided in March.

I'd just like to know if some here have experienced this and how they feel/felt about it.

Although it was the "best" option in this situation, I still feel this is totally wrong  :'(

Every other Saturday, I enter an apartment hall and leave my son there. On the way back, I wait in a room to not see mad X, and then get my son back. The psychologist there has only told me "this is until the conflict clears out".

Sorry? I have done nothing to fuel this "conflict"... .and it never clears out because he is PERSECUTED.

My D11's psychologist tells me that this is stonewalling as they know well they are protecting my son and me this way.

Thanks for reading.
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Indyan
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Gender: Female
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: separated for 15 months, court 4 months ago
Posts: 812


« Reply #1 on: January 24, 2016, 05:45:45 PM »

Oops, not sure my message was very clear 

It's supervised visitation for my EX of course. He sees our son supervised by 2 psychologists.
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