I'm currently in that place many of you might know quite well. The love of my life (so far) too quickly disappeared, only to reappear and disappear and cause emotional confusion.
Now I'm lost. I still believe we could be really good together again.
She might be wanting me again. Or she might not.
I've been losing myself in the process and need to take inventory of myself, of what I like about myself.
a) for myself, being independent and looking forward into the future with self-worth and identity
b) to remind myself what a partner can expect from me; that i'm a good catch
If she won't realize all that once more, it's her loss, although it makes me sad.
I invite you to take inventory of what you like about yourself, too.
- I'm a nice guy
- I"m empathic
- I'm a problem solver
- I like to help
- I'm funny sometimes
- I'm weird sometimes and i guess that can be funny too
- I learned not to be a pushover
- I have my values and i stand up for them
- I can say yes and accept what is given to me
- I can say no and have my boundaries
- I know some useless fun facts
- I know some useful stuff too
- I like deep converstions
- I like funny conversations
- I like deep and funny conversations
- I like my job
- I enjoy my other artistic outlets
- Despite being introvert sometimes, I learned how to talk to strangers, make friends and get along with most people
- People somehow like me
- Despite being troubled when younger, i've been pursuing a career in my job, which is also my oldest hobby, for over 10 years now
- I'm not too shabby
- I try to stay in good, attractive shape, while not being a total health and sports geek
- I'm awesome
