Hello

[Frosty911]

Hi everyone!

Wanted to take a min and introduce myself.

You can call me Frosty... obviously not my real name, i worked in a really cold place, kind of a nickname i picked up...

Anyways, i am 37 year old professional male and I am in a relationship with a wonderful 27 year old woman who i adore and she has BPD. There are also some underlying issues compounding this situation one of them her having been sexually assaulted in college.

Like all of you, i came here seeking answers. Our relationship has been one thing after another and i am looking for guidance on what to do.

Thanks in advance.

Frosty

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[sweetheart]

Hello Frosty911 and welcome to bpdfamily  

I'm glad you found us, dealing with BPD in a relationship can be very difficult indeed. You will find yourself alongside others who will listen, support and guide you as you start telling us your story and hopefully finding answers to the questions you ask.

It's sounds from your post that your SO has been diagnosed, is she in any kind of treatment, therapy or has she been in the past?

You say that it has been one thing after another, can you tell some more about the things that brought you here?

How can we help you start answering your questions?

What support is around in your life for you?