First fight after reconciliation

[Depression = 72% of members]

We had our first fight after almost two weeks of being together last night (and into today). We've been having such a lovely time that I'd almost forgotten about this side of it. Bummer. Let's see what happens but I'm not too hopeful. I'm gonna read up on validation before our talk tonight, and try my best to be validating and see where that leads us. 

[kc sunshine]

We had our first fight after almost two weeks of being together last night (and into today). We've been having such a lovely time that I'd almost forgotten about this side of it. Bummer. Let's see what happens but I'm not too hopeful. I'm gonna read up on validation before our talk tonight, and try my best to be validating and see where that leads us. 

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[Grey Kitty]

Can you describe how the fight started in some detail? It is a lot easier to work out how to do things differently when you get more specific.

[an0ught]

What are your experiences in childhood, other relationships and expectations now with respect to conflicts and fights kc?