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Author Topic: Was anyone here trapped with a pregnancy? Please share your stories  (Read 525 times)
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« on: March 29, 2016, 08:01:55 PM »

Hi just wondering if anyone here was trapped with a pregnancy, by a BPD female?

What did you do. Did you try to do the honorable thing first for the childs sake? How did it go from there on...

I wonder if anyone here regrets for staying in the woman's trap or moving in for x amount of time but end up leaving anyways.

Really interested in your stories!



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« Reply #1 on: March 29, 2016, 08:24:13 PM »

I would not say trapped maybe a lot of FOG with it all.

I could say the pregenancy was purposefully, to believe it was not an accident, but that would take away from the choices I made and the responsibility that was my own.

I do remember going through stages.

Thinking I can make this work.

Things will get better after the second child

That realationship have the ups and downs.

If I could last till they were 18

Finding the few pluses (sex) and holding on to that.

If I could last till they turned 12.

If I could last till moving.

till the next holiday.

Yes, I made excuse after excuse to stay in the abuse.  

Each time moving that I'll be out of here moment closer and closer to the present.


It's been over for a bit.

I still wonder if I could have made this work.

That is why I work on with my T.

There is a difference in the bad times being stable and going through a bump.

But being a relationship with a pwBPF, the bad times become more and more frequent with each day's passing.

At the end of the day. Having the children was worth it.
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« Reply #2 on: March 29, 2016, 08:50:44 PM »

My story almost word for word tryingsome

Thanks for sharing
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