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Was anyone here trapped with a pregnancy? Please share your stories
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March 29, 2016, 08:01:55 PM »
Hi just wondering if anyone here was trapped with a pregnancy, by a BPD female?
What did you do. Did you try to do the honorable thing first for the childs sake? How did it go from there on...
I wonder if anyone here regrets for staying in the woman's trap or moving in for x amount of time but end up leaving anyways.
Really interested in your stories!
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I would not say trapped maybe a lot of FOG with it all.
I could say the pregenancy was purposefully, to believe it was not an accident, but that would take away from the choices I made and the responsibility that was my own.
I do remember going through stages.
Thinking I can make this work.
Things will get better after the second child
That realationship have the ups and downs.
If I could last till they were 18
Finding the few pluses (sex) and holding on to that.
If I could last till they turned 12.
If I could last till moving.
till the next holiday.
Yes, I made excuse after excuse to stay in the abuse.
Each time moving that I'll be out of here moment closer and closer to the present.
It's been over for a bit.
I still wonder if I could have made this work.
That is why I work on with my T.
There is a difference in the bad times being stable and going through a bump.
But being a relationship with a pwBPF, the bad times become more and more frequent with each day's passing.
At the end of the day. Having the children was worth it.
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My story almost word for word tryingsome
Thanks for sharing
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