My mom is mentally killing me

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My mom I'm sure has BPD my dad told me be for he passed she had she doesn't think she has a problem. I work for as her caregive and just in the last few days have been looking up stuff and it all makes sense she's so mean then nice I come home cring 4 days a week and I honestly have no idea were I become as a teenager I thought she hated me my childhood was Hell. But now at 22 I'm understanding there are big issues I can't talk to her at all I'm always wrong. I just can't keep this up she is very sick with other health issues and I'm trying but I just don't know what to do

[Summerrayyy]

My mom I'm sure has BPD my dad told me be for he passed she had she doesn't think she has a problem. I work for as her caregive and just in the last few days have been looking up stuff and it all makes sense she's so mean then nice I come home cring 4 days a week and I honestly have no idea were I become as a teenager I thought she hated me my childhood was Hell. But now at 22 I'm understanding there are big issues I can't talk to her at all I'm always wrong. I just can't keep this up she is very sick with other health issues and I'm trying but I just don't know what to do

[Woolspinner2000]

Summerrayyy, Welcome and I'm so glad you have found us and joined our family here! 

I am so sorry for the really hard time you are having, but please know that we are a group who will be glad to listen to you, help you, and encourage you all we can. My mom too was an uBPD, so I can understand some of what you are going through. It's truly horrible, isn't it?

I am very proud of you for taking the time and effort that you are to educate yourself and find support outside of the atmosphere in which you live.   . There is a lot of helpful information here to read. You can start with the list on the right side if you have not read it yet... ------------->

Can you tell us some more about yourself? Do you have siblings? And it sounded like your dad has died. I'm very sorry. How long ago was that?

Please stay in touch!

Hugs for you 

Wools

[Turkish]

Hello Summerrayyy,

I'd like to join Woolspinner2000 in welcoming you here 

How do you mean that you are your mother's caregiver, what exactly does this entail? What kind of outside resources are available for help? I hope to hear more and how best we can support you.



Turkish