Summer... .so quite a similar story to mine then.
He seems so terribly 'anti' me right now, the man who used to stare into my eyes won't make eye contact or acknowledge that I am even alive when he's seen me out in town. i catch him looking at me though, oh yes, but he literally cuts me dead. Yet there he is on my Skype... .and it's not like he can't see me on there as he used to chat to me on it. Why? why why why why why? :'(
We're on okay terms now, I guess. Honestly, she's doing the same thing to many other people that she's doing to me, so that makes me feel a little better. She has a friend from high school whom she refers to as her "sister." The friend lived in another state and was attending college there but had to move back here to take care of her mother, who was diagnosed with cancer. She came back last June, and I was discarded immediately. There were other circumstances that led to this, but what better time to discard one "best friend" when another one moves back to the area? So, all summer and into the late fall, she was posting pictures of the two of them, tagging her in FB posts, liking all of her Instagram photos, etc. In December, she discarded me again because she was with her "sister" and felt like I wasn't giving her space. Funny, since I haven't seen her in almost a year. But anyway, her mom told me last week that my pwBPD was posting all over her friend's FB page last weekend, and the friend replied with, "I haven't seen you or heard from you in four months." pwBPD's reply was, "I know. I suck." She hadn't heard from her in four months, and they didn't even have a falling out! That's how she treats someone she refers to as her "sister." Not to mention that this girl has a sick mother and has also struggled with an eating disorder herself. She was also contacting me a lot last weekend and kept viewing my Snapchat story whenever I added to it. I haven't heard from her since last Sunday. Her grandmother died last Saturday (her mom told me), and she shared something her uncle posted about it last Monday. I texted her and said I was sorry to hear about her grandmother. No reply.
My guess is that this is push/pull and it's me, her mom, and her "sister" against her new boyfriend. She pushes him and pulls us, then pushes us and pulls him. This guy seems to have a very level head, and he hasn't been giving into her desire to have their whole relationship detailed on social media, so for his sake, I hope he gets out of their soon.
