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« on: May 04, 2016, 02:46:02 AM »

OK, I'm making a "BPD breakup" playlist on spotify.

Before you say anything no it's not for listening outside in the park at night in the pouring rain... .

The plan is to put something together full of my (maybe our) most motivational 'go to' songs, something we can chuck on when we are at the gym, going for a drive, having a s**t day that might help make us feel better about the future AND remind us that we are a strong community. Once it's on spotify, anyone with the app can play it on their phone.

SO, if you would like to add to my playlist, please give me song suggestions, as many as you want any genre/style will be considered EXCEPT for death/speed metal and YOKO ONO


Here are some of my choices

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8ofhjI6ODc

Twin Shadow - To the top. This is my #1 go to song for feeling better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKL4X0PZz7M

First aid Kid - My silver lining

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbN0nX61rIs

Florence + the machine - Shake it out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xe3RqgnXaT4

Colin Hay - Beautiful world


Any suggestions would be awesome!
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« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2016, 03:56:45 AM »

Volbeat - Cape of our Hero

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlF3OY-FenY

Mumford & Sons - The Cave

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oMO4xdOS5jY

And my favorite... .

The National - Fake Empire

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KehwyWmXr3U
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« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2016, 09:29:24 AM »

Sia - "Alive"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t2NgsJrrAyM

Sebadoh - "The Freed Pig"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Um7kFyLmrQI

The Black Keys - "Too Afraid To Love You"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ft_-5kuYY-E

Robyn - "Indestructible"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ueI8HU1cmNE
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« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2016, 12:18:59 PM »

i listened endlessly to eminems Recovery album (i listened to a lot more than that, but as a fan, Recovery is a far more mature eminem).

more recently, he has a song called Beautiful Kind of Pain (lame name) that makes me tear up every single time i hear it.
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     and I think it's gonna be all right; yeah; the worst is over now; the mornin' sun is shinin' like a red rubber ball…
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« Reply #4 on: May 04, 2016, 12:36:20 PM »

Gloria Gaynor - I will survive.

A breakup Classic especially when the BPD tries to recycle you.  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #5 on: May 04, 2016, 12:59:10 PM »

Rearview mirror by Pearl Jam is a great one for me ... .https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVL0wcv1IS4

I took a drive today

Time to emancipate

I guess it was the beatings... .made me wise

But I'm not about to give thanks, or apologize

I couldn't breathe, holdin' me down

Hand on my face, pushed to the ground

Enmity gauged, united by fear

Forced to endure what I could not forgive... .

I seem to look away

Wounds in the mirror waved

It wasn't my surface... .most defiled

Head at your feet, fool to your crown

Fist on my plate, swallowed it down

Enmity gauged, united by fear

Tried to endure what I could not forgive

Saw things

Saw things

Saw things

Saw things

Clearer

Clearer

Once you, were in my... .

Rearviewmirror... .

I gather speed from you F'ing with me

Once and for all I'm far away

I hardly believe, finally the shades... .are raised... .

Saw things so much clearer

(Once you, once you)

Rearviewmirror... .
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« Reply #6 on: May 04, 2016, 01:17:52 PM »

Rearview mirror by Pearl Jam is a great one for me ... .https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVL0wcv1IS4

Can't believe I forgot about that one. Love it!
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« Reply #7 on: May 04, 2016, 02:57:16 PM »

Ahoy, great idea... .

To throw a bit of a rock theme to it, how about the following:

Shinedown - Cut the Cord

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RR1aKkHhM0E

"Cause agony brings no reward

For one more hit and one last score

Don't be a casualty, cut the cord"


Could be the motto of my life right now regarding BPD
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« Reply #8 on: May 04, 2016, 04:44:56 PM »

Frazey Ford, ":)one." Love this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXRrySTujn8
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