A lesson in no contact

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

I was reminded the hard way that no contact also involves contact with their friends.  A simple conversation with a mutual friend resulted in the ex making contact and setting me back a bit in recovering.  I have to remind myself to just not engage with anyone regarding the ex, ever.  Words get twisted and then you're back feeling like you have to defend yourself again.  It is just not worth it.  There is never closure.  No matter how many times you tell your side of the story, they will always change it.  Its a no win situation.

[Frank88]

I was reminded the hard way that no contact also involves contact with their friends.  A simple conversation with a mutual friend resulted in the ex making contact and setting me back a bit in recovering.  I have to remind myself to just not engage with anyone regarding the ex, ever.  Words get twisted and then you're back feeling like you have to defend yourself again.  It is just not worth it.  There is never closure.  No matter how many times you tell your side of the story, they will always change it.  Its a no win situation.

[Hadlee]

It's really tough having mutual friends.  I was tagged in a post along with my BPD and others by a mutual friend today.  The BPD liked others comments except mine.  Guess I'm black