Dropped my son off with his mother

[JerryRG]

Dropped my son off with his mother, my son screamed at her bf when he tried to carry him. Mom finally came out and took my son and text me after I left asking where is clothes are.

After 2 days of her silence I did not respond to her text, she likes playing games and I'm tired of it.

She never changes and being around her makes my skin crawl, she is truly disgusting

[Hadlee]

I'm not sure how her asking a question like that be deemed a game.  Could that not have been a legitimate question she was asking regarding your sons clothing?

[JerryRG]

She told me to keep them with me when I picked him up on Friday so she's trying to manipulate me. I text her all weekend and got no reply so I am going to stay silent too. She just cannot be fair.

I told her on Friday I would take my son for a few hours because I was sick. Then I came down with the flu and she said she would pick him up Saturday night but never showed up. Then went silent. I'm tired of her games.

[londons]

i dont blame you , jerry.  its all mind boggling.  i dont think i would mess with a response either.  why should u follow all the rules and be polite if she is going to act like an 8 year old?  geez, you need a break.  here is a hug!       if she has a concern, have her put a note in his pocket, like we do at school and want to inform the parent.  we dont text the parent.  ya know?  just a thought , because the sound of those texts going off can drive u bonkers.        each time mine goes off, i say in my head, "its NOT him. he is blocked"   i get disappointed, but then i dont get my hopes up.   hang in there.  i have a feeling everything will be ok.  your son is lucky to have u... .

[JerryRG]

Thank you

She lives in her own world and follows her own rules and changes them to suite her needs. She thinks she can demand from me and I will comply because I am a decent man. She's unaware that I'm on to her childish games and I've learned the truth about her.

My anger toward her behavoiurs stands in the way of complete enjoyment of my son and when I look at her bf I smile knowing what he's in for. I haven't talked to one single person who says anything different. Her end is near... .my son will be with me perminantly and she can live in her distorted realm of reality.

And yes I'm tired, I took care of my son while having the flu and I have to work in the morning. His mother sits on her lazy butt dreaming up ways to not take care of our son or get a job.

Living off my son's child support for over 18 months while she developes cancer and it vanishes then now it's back just in time for her to not have to get a job and people pity her.  Gurrrrrrrrrrrr and I've GOT CANCER AND CHEMO, you liar!

I need a nap