She has always said it is but I'm not 100% I have mixed emotions about the issue. I'm not signing birth certificate and will request DNA test since she doesn't want the child to have my last name anyway.
I think this is an excellent choice - a must - given the nature of BPD.
I agree! When she got pregnant was after a spilt and a reunion. She was out with another man right before we got back together and around the time she conceived. Everything was great until a month and a half after she told me she was pregnant. She was pushing marriage and a house. I proposed and she treated me like crap and told me my proposal was the lamest thing she's even witnesses , so I broke up with her and got my ring back. She tried to engage a few times for a month after our split but after the first month she has blocked all contact and only allowed me at one baby doc appt. she named the child without me and doesn't want child having my last name. She also threatened to ruin my life and reputation if I didn't pay her insurance co pay. I paid the money which was over $1000 and I'm still not allowed at doc appts because I told her I wanted a DNA test. She said if I want to est paternity through the courts and in my way don't bother attending her doc appts,so I haven't attended.
