Hi broken soul,
I'm so sorry that your marriage has gotten to the point of divorce. That is so hard and emotionally draining. I'm glad you posted, because you came to the right place for support. Our members have been where you are, and will have great experience and advice to share with you. The site also has tons of tools to help make things better for you. You are definitely not alone, broken soul.
How long have you been married? Do you have children?
I can understand your nervousness about talking with your wife about divorce. I encourage you to check out our
Family Law, Divorce, and Custody section, too. You can very find valuable advice there to help you through the divorce process.
Do you have friends and family whom you can lean on, broken soul? It's so important to surround yourself with a support system at this time.
Keep writing and tell us more of your story. We're here to support you.
heartandwhole