So, when I first moved into my apartment, this older man was moving in below me. He was real flirty and had a weird googly look that scared me. I asked him to make sure he locked up the gate below when he was done moving. I told him I had a crazy ex I was trying to keep out. He said call me... .I will help you. I told him what I did for living after he asked and then he asked for my business card to give to his ex-wife. I thought that was strange- he is either friendly with his ex-wife, letting me know he is divorced or looking for an excuse to talk to her. I never gave him a card. Then he kept asking me when I was going to give him a manicure... .allot actually- every time I saw him. He actually said, " I want to look like a lawyer"... I am thinking... .as opposed to what? I saw him at the gym one time and we didn't speak. I saw him a bit later and he said, "was that you in the gym earlier? I didn't recognize you with out make up- you are so much prettier with it on."
Then one day he has all of this cheap jewelry in his car and he runs up to me and says here I have something for you... .He hands me earrings. I gave them back to him and said, thank you but I do not accept gifts from strangers... .I saw him out at a bar restaurant one night and I looked the other way. That was it... .I moved to a smaller apartment. (I chose a bigger one when we sold our house in case my husband was coming back-such delusion I had)... .I've now just run into him when I was walking my dog. He came out of the elevator drunk- He had been upstairs. He said, "do you still live above me?" I said "no, I moved to a smaller apt." He asked "did you ever hear me?" I said "no.' He said, " Oh, Thank God!" Then he just smiled and went on his way... .So weird! Red Flags anyone? My Mom actually said he could be retarded... .he has a really high pitched voice too... .But I don't know- I just don't want anything to do with him. He scares me... .I didn't want to tell him I heard him banging around down there with hammers and wondered if he was turning his closet into some kind of torture chamber or storage for dead bodies... .,
