My exgf posted pics of when we were together, nothing else that I can tell. Maybe 10 pics at most? That's why I knew it was her, just nature shots of clouds and lake pics. She told me yesterday she missed driving around with me and taking pictures.
I told her I was still not ready for a serious relationship, I said this to help her understand I'm not ready, for her or anyone else. Her responce, she's not able to work on herself when she's with her bf.
I don't know if she's after me, like other pwBPD she's asking for attention, I don't think love has much to do with my exes relationships.
And just like you all describe, my exgf broke up with her bf and she contacted me immediately. I feel so honored,
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NO CONTACT, DO NOT ENGAGE
While we disgusted her getting help and her second guessing her choices I said.
Ask yourself this one question,
Are you better now than one year ago?
Two years ago?
Three... .
Four. ...
That should be your guide.
Your bf is beating you, abusing you, he lost his appartment, his car, he's discouraging you from getting real help.
You're sick all the time, can't work, broke, broken, can't care for our son, umm and your happy?
Rocket science here