Vocabulary

[tryingsome]

Haven't posted in a while as things have been good.
But I just read a few threads and something popped up; the use of words.
Never in my life or previous relationships have I met someone use a peculiar word choices. And reading some threads, I think you can relate.
So i am calling this (in jest) the red flags of vocabulary. Words they will use that are ? to sanity.

Here goes:

Sabotage
Abondoned
Evil
Guy-friend (as oppsed to just friend)

Am I right, has the pwBPD in your life used those words?
What other words would you consider 'red flag' words? 

[FallBack!Monster]

My aunt is going to give me $20
My cousin(s)
Oh she's gay
That's my bff from childhood... knowing you're not going to stop him from seeing his cousins and bf.