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Taylor Swift - Borderline Pesonality Disorder?
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She's hot
Feminine, Sexy, Seductive
She's turning 27 this month and isn't close to marriage
Her life revolves around her two cats - She takes them everywhere and admits to being a "cat lady"
She monkey branches from one serious relationship immediately into another serious relationship
She told Rolling Stone "I've never had a relationship last longer than 6 months"
She admits to becoming quickly obsessed with bf's (ex: she bought a house across street from Conor Kennedy after only dating 3 weeks - he broke up with her in less than 3 months saying "her obsession with me freaked me out"
Dates older men (Calvin Harris 32 when she was 25; Jake Gyllenall 35 when she was 26; Tom Hiddleston 35 when she was 26)
She is extremely skinny (eating disorder?)
She HATES all her exbf's (widley known to attack them in her songs)
All of her songs are about her love life ("I[ve written all my songs about ex boyfriends, they are my inspiration"
Her lyrics scream BPD to me and she admits which exbf inspired each song:
Blank Space - The song is literally about borderline personality "Magic, Madness, Heaven, Sin - Loves a game wanna play - It's gonna be forever or go down in flames" (she claims it was a joke but doubt it) [MEDIA=youtube]e-ORhEE9VVg[/MEDIA]
We are Never Ever Getting Back Together & All Too Well - "I say I hate you, we breakup, you call me, I love you" (she said inspired by Jake Gyllenhall)
I Almost Do - "I can't say hello to you again to risk another goodbye" Still thinking about calling her ex years later
Wildest Dreams - "I can see the end as it begins" an affair with older married man
Tim McGraw - "the song we danced to all night long" wrote about exbf Brandon Borello who said "I bought the album and love it but my girlfriend hates it"
Picture to Burn - wrote about exbf Jordan Alford who she calls a "redneck"
Teardrops on My Guitar - wrote about boy she loved in HS, Drew, but never asked out. She said he heard the song and asked her out later but it was too late.
Should've Said No - exbf, Sam Armstrong, who she said cheated on her. She covered the album in his name
Forever & Always, Last Kiss, Better Than Revenge - all 3 songs about Joe Jonas and even her hatred for his new gf, Camilla Belle
Back to December - exbf Taylor Lautner "you gave me roses and all your love and all I gave you was goodbye"
I Knew You Were Trouble & Dear John - exbf John Mayer "the saddest fear comes creeping in that you never loved me"
Enchanted - axbf Adam Young
Begin Again - Conor Kennedy
Style - Harry Styles
New Romantics - "Life is a classroom, please leave stranded, it's so romantic"
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Re: Taylor Swift - Borderline Pesonality Disorder?
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We barely know if our own exes are BPD let alone a high profile celeb
. But i guess there are traits that seem to be there.
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Re: Taylor Swift - Borderline Pesonality Disorder?
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Hi George. Welcome.
Can you share a little about your ex?
BTW, here is a blog where you might want to make your case about Taylor Swift. This blogger thinks Aspergers... .
www.shrinktank.com/a-psychologists-perspective-of-taylor-swift-part-1/
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Re: Taylor Swift - Borderline Pesonality Disorder?
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Who knows? We can't really be sure and put a label on all drama queens as BPD.
Her lyrics are catchy and resemble the tale of our BPD experiences, sure.
Lots of people can relate to relationship drama too and the person they are with may not necessarily have BPD.
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That all could be a show. You never know who an actor/singer is.
Their whole life is a lie and they are brands out to make money. A lot of them are in closet gays/ marriage contracts.
I knew a therapist who worked in LA with some big names. It's the most ___ed up town cause everything is fake.
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I have always thought that about her... .there are many celebrities who have been known to have it. Princess Diana, Marilyn Monroe and Angelina Jolie to name a few... .Lady Gaga may be too. You can google it.
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I just watched a video taking about Taylor Swift Blank Space and then I watched the music video. I agree it sounds exactly like a pwBPD talking about how a r/s goes for them. I love her music now I'm thinking about all her other songs meaning. Funny thing is at one time she lived not to far from me before she was a celebrity.
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