hi darktriadmorbid, and

as
keef mentions, we arent professionals here, but we all have experience with hurtful behaviors, and youre in good company to discuss your relationship, how it affected you, and how your detachment is going.
its quite a list, would you like to share more? when did you break up?
Thank you once removed,
I'd just like to say that I got out of it in a couple of months with no social financial or permanent loss.
Cant say I came out emotionally unscathed though.
Midway of the relationship I got to know about daddy issues and effects of abandoning father and got on my toes.
After her stories didn't add up, her lies kept getting mounted along with self harm and childish behaviour.
Jumped out before the frog got boiled.