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« on: December 25, 2016, 11:13:20 PM »

Hi i divorced partner, husband, after 32 years after confirmation of his affairs & risky sexual behaviour.  I found it difficult to talk to children about what was happening.  He said it would be my word against his and no one would believe me.  My eldest daughter has taken his side completely & is treating me with the same lack of respect, contempt.  We have just had a difficult christmas where she is off whispering on the corner with k6ther members of family.  She & i have had counselling, at her request, & counselor stopped her verbal abuse.  Problem is i never know how she will be when i see her.  Sometimes she reaches out too me, not often.  Then i am ignored, she ignores phone calls, emails etc.  I dont send them often, but i do try to stay in touch.  I am fjnally feeling i can face the situation with her, its been 15 years since divorce.  Is it too late?  Other children seem to be fine. 
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Relationship status: "Divorced"/abandoned by SO in Feb 2013; Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021.
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« Reply #1 on: December 25, 2016, 11:22:06 PM »

How old is she,  and do you see any BPD indicators in her, or just that she's engaging in punishing behaviors towards you? How old are the other kids who aren't acting like this?

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