I found a solution

[Depression = 72% of members]

Ok so all the pain we are going through we are just going to have to work on internally.

But here is my humorous solution to prevent this from happening to anyone else.

You know the tags they use on wild animals? you know the big ear ones? Yes we should tag them! Then all would be aware of what they are.

Than we could heard them all up and throw them on an island together. ( We could name it mental island) Its not really that mean of a concept, how many of us would like to live on a tropical island.  I mean they are so dead set that they deserve love at the cost of every soul that gets near them. Let them destroy their own kind!
 

[talks to angels]

Ok so all the pain we are going through we are just going to have to work on internally.

But here is my humorous solution to prevent this from happening to anyone else.

You know the tags they use on wild animals? you know the big ear ones? Yes we should tag them! Then all would be aware of what they are.

Than we could heard them all up and throw them on an island together. ( We could name it mental island) Its not really that mean of a concept, how many of us would like to live on a tropical island.  I mean they are so dead set that they deserve love at the cost of every soul that gets near them. Let them destroy their own kind!
 

[Duped 1]

I like it!

[unsureuncertain]

It would be like the show survivor!

[talks to angels]

Yes. Tune in next week will B's pity ploy work or will J use the Silent Treatment. LOL

[Pretty Woman]

It's funny you write this... .I read somewhere that if we dropped our BPD on an Island they would eventually become a Narcissist because they would be mirroring themselves. 

Clearly we cannot tag people, that's profiling but I see the humor in your post. I like to think dating a BPD is a gift. Two years ago I would have said otherwise but my radar for crazy-making people is 99% on and I go the other direction. I don't engage and if someone shows me they are nuts I take it at face value, I no longer make excuses and try to see "the good" in them. There are just as many healthy people out there and I would rather surround myself with those peeps.

[Hisaccount]

But we would never watch it because we lived it.

[Pipedreamer25]

Haha!   I used to work in an crisis shelter for a bit and there was a large population of cluster Bs all in close proximity to each other in stressful circumstances.   Bold and the beautiful can't even compare!  It was incredible!  Seeing a BPD triangulate several other BPDs whilst they are also triangulating led to the most epic rages I've ever seen.  One BPD is more than enough thank you!

Also on a serious note Pretty Woman -  I want to thank you so much for your posts.  I really get a lot from your wisdom and am sure that other people do today.   I hope to have half your wisdom some day!