Consequences that are appropriate / effective for a person with BPD?

[TDeer]

Hi there,


What consequences have you found appropriate / effective for your pwBPD?

How did you develop the consequences?

[Charlie3236]

Wow that is a really great and very big question. I'm hoping one of the admins can step in and give you a good answer!

Personally I've found no "consequences" that work with my BPD little sis. The only thing that works for us is for me to protect myself and my family from her rage. We are basically LC... .just see her at a few family events and keep conversations light. Every once in a while she tries to be around my son without me or my husband around, but we've decided that kind of mental instability is the last thing a toddler needs.

It's super sad! :'(