Hi Gear Jammer,
That is some story. I'm sorry you went through that. Breakups are never easy, but dealing with those kinds of behaviors and a smear campaign to boot can wear even the strongest down. I'm glad that you have recovered from that roller coaster.
This man she is with now—the one you have concerns about—he is not the "caretaker" type she was seeing from your company?
How are things for you now professionally and personally?
Keep posting. It helps to share. You are definitely not alone.
heartandwhole
Its taken me nearly 2 years to recover, dealing with her and work both caused me stress. When I had to leave my job it was a bit of a scramble but I went back into the career I originally came from. Today I've regained my health physically and mentally I never want to repeat the past that's for damn sure.
The BPD seen me 6 months ago she's never seen me fit and healthy before I think she liked what see seen. She acted shy and nervous seeing me just like the day we first met each other. Her plans of me crashing and burning never really happened I rebounded and kept moving on with my life. Her on the other hand was in the same position when I left her, her career has stalled, nothing improved in her life.
She destroys men I can see it in her current BF he was a heathy man when he met her today he's a wreck he's gained a good 40 plus pounds. She moves in with him he's not going to be able to handle it she's going to end up dead he will fly off his nut and seriously hurt her.