My ex was cold from the start ( it got a bit better a few months in )I hear about this ,bpd being crazy in bed ,that wasn’t my experience she was never that sexually adventurous almost cold
That is an over generalization. I know this is hard and I see it all the time, but even if someone has a disorder that does not mean that they are not individual. This is why some might be hypersexual. Some might not care about sex whatsoever. Each individual is different.
In essence, try not to assume too much. Keep an open mind. As I always say...hate the disorder, never the person.
Also, disorders also manifest differently for individuals as well. So while there may be some universal similarities that match up there will still be differences as well. That is why it is so hard to diagnose in the first place.
Now with all that said. What questions do you have? What are your goals here?
Please be kind to you and take care of yourself.
Cheers and Best Wishes!
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