BPD Ex Success Stories?

[eleven_11]

Hi everyone,

I have been looking through some of the success stories which are so encouraging and raise my spirits. However, I am wondering if there are any success stories where a BPD ex returned and it worked out? If I need to go into detail about what has been happening in my situation, I can, but essentially, right now we are in consistent contact with one another.

Thanks so much for your help

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[Meili]

 

I was able to save my relationship from break-up with my ex that brought me here. Later, I decided that I didn't want that relationship (non-BPD related) and moved on.

Also, by learning as much about BPD and communication skills as I could, I have been able to develop a friendship with my BPD ex-wife, to whom I hadn't spoken in 10 years. She spent the past decade thinking that I was a monster, but now sees me in a completely different light. We've even talked about getting back together at some point in the future. Neither of us is in a hurry to repeat the past however.

[eleven_11]

I love hearing abour your success Meili! It really gives me hope that things can work out for me and my guy as well. Thanks for being such an awesome person. You're always very helpful