My Friends Blame Me

[Milatuo]

Someone say : Even if you're the "perfect, quiet wife," he might still find an excuse to distance himself due to his inner turmoil.

Is that true? Even if I did that two years ago, would there still be an internal conflict dynamic between us?

I'm in a long-distance marriage. My husband is increasingly busy with his work and rarely comes home. My friends say it's my fault for being a nagging wife. All I ask for is time and good communication.

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