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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: May 14, 2026, 02:47:55 PM »

I had a facility presentation today. I was pretty anxious wondering if someone would decide to drop in. First two presentations over. I'm third, 'someone' logs into the Teams aspect of it to hear me speak. I know there isn't an answer to any of this. But why would you even want to hear someone speak who you accused of horrible awful things at work?

I mean, before we started dating she would say she'd sneak into her bosses office to hear me on meetings because my voice 'soothed her'. Just brings back a gross feeling.

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« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2026, 10:32:15 PM »

I'm sorry this is happening to you. It must bring up all kinds of disorienting feelings - the contrast between then and now. I hope you are able to find some stability and calm in your mind and body.
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« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2026, 12:18:57 AM »

I had a facility presentation today. I was pretty anxious wondering if someone would decide to drop in. First two presentations over. I'm third, 'someone' logs into the Teams aspect of it to hear me speak. I know there isn't an answer to any of this. But why would you even want to hear someone speak who you accused of horrible awful things at work?

I mean, before we started dating she would say she'd sneak into her bosses office to hear me on meetings because my voice 'soothed her'. Just brings back a gross feeling.



Oh do I understand the thought process. The hardest part for me is dealing with the completely irrational and the complete disregard for traditional wisdom and logic. I say it in present tense because even I understand the disorder and mental health disorders extremely well that doesn't mean that I can remove my bias entirely...no I still sit back and go WTF?

So by all means vent away my friend...trust me I get it and most of us here do as well.

Cheers and Best Wishes!

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